by Phoebe Jordan

You, Me, And Autism

How to Support, Befriend, and Work with Autistic People

Arriving July 2025!

In You, Me, and Autism, autistic scholar Phoebe Jordan elegantly combines her personal experiences and academic research to create a unique and wonderful book. Jordan reveals her capacity to help allistic people (those who are not autistic) deeply understand the daily struggles, challenges, and strengths of autistic people.

You, Me, and Autism is a well-designed bridge to stronger relationships between allistic and autistic people. The book helps allistic people to create supportive environments at home and work where autistic people can fully contribute and thrive. The book also helps autistic people learn how to manage their limitations and courageously embrace new opportunities.

Writing with a down-to-earth, engaging, inspiring, and humorous style, Jordan has filled her book with practical strategies for all readers. Her tried-and-true guidance pertains to workplaces, home life, emotional and physical health, education, and personal identity.  

endorsements

“As someone whose passions are learning, reading, and working with autistic people and their families, I tremendously enjoyed reading You, Me, and Autism. The book creates and paints different and unique worlds through elegant and evocative stories, taking the reader through a fulfilling journey of discovery. As such, it can be viewed as a significant literary work. Importantly, to everyone interested in learning about autism from the perspectives of the families, this book offers invaluable insights and should therefore be essential reading for the general public, students, clinicians, researchers, and policymakers. Although I have worked in the field of autism for a significant period of time, I have benefited greatly from the diverse perspectives presented in this excellent book. We need more books like this.”

— Mirko Uljarevic, MD, PhD, Associate Professor of Psychiatry and Behavioral Sciences, Stanford University

“Using research evidence and diverse lived experiences this is a beautiful exploration of autistic identity as well as practical strategies. It takes a strengths-based approach to understanding autism from core characteristics to daily living, schooling, employment, relationships, disclosure, and wellbeing.”

— Dane Dougan, Chief Executive Officer, Autism New Zealand

About the Author

Phoebe Jordan is an autistic researcher whose PhD work at Victoria University in Wellington, New Zealand, in partnership with researchers at Stanford University, has focused on ways to support autistic children. As an autistic scholar, her work integrates personal experience and academic rigor. Her research has been published in major academic journals, such as Autism and Lancet Regional Health Western Pacific. She lives in New Zealand. Follow her on Instagram.

Academic Research

Research about community perspectives on support goals for autistic children.

This study examined parents’ relative preferences for parent coaching and direct clinician support.

Research about the efficacy of parent- and clinician-delivered support for autistic children.

purchase links

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You, Me, and Autism: How to Support, Befriend, and Work with Autistic People

All rights reserved. Printed in the United States of America. No part of this book may be used or reproduced in any manner whatsoever without written permission except in the case of brief questions embodied in articles and reviews. For information, contact the publisher.

Published by Upriver Press

ISBN Print Version: 979-8-9906236-2-0

ISBN Ebook: 979-8-9906236-3-7

Cover Design: James Clarke (jclarke.net)

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